If you want to pick which 'flair' icon you would like to display, log in at the top right of www.paltalk.com. 

Once you are logged in click on the 'more settings' button.  You will see your account information.

Look for the 'icon' notation and click on the 'change' link to the right.

A small popup window will appear.  Click on the drop down menu to select the flair that you want to use, then click on the 'change' button.

If you do not see your flair in the list, click on the 'retry' link just under the drop down menu.  The page will 'reset' and your flair should appear in the list now.

You MAY have to log off and back on after changing your flair, or leave the room that you are in then re-join it.